Luke's Mummy

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Just the one thanks

Have been feeling really very broody lately, think it is the combination of cousin Steph having her beautiful little girl and looking at all the gorgeous pics and videos (thanks to Uncle Eric) also, me reaching the ripe old age of 40 soon (surely not?) and Lukey becoming so independant (well ok, he wipes his own bum). Richard and I have been discussing whether or not to go for it, and have had talks with Luke to see how he would feel about a sibling (the jury is still out), and still we are not sure what to do..... then the phone went about an hour ago

It was my childhood friend Bev, who is now a qualified midwife and mum to 4 great children, the oldest being 21 and the youngest 4. We haven't talked for ages and it is always great to catch up, turns out she is pregnant again (yes, at 40), she is about 15 weeks gone. She had some bleeding a few weeks ago and went to have it checked out, the sonographer asked if there was a history of multiple births in the family (not really) .... she is having TRIPLETS!!!!! It was originally QUADS but unfortunately she had lost one (hence the bleeding). I was so delighted for her even though she is still somewhat shocked, but in typical Bev fashion she is taking it all in her stride. Anyway, the cause for my concern is that according to Bev (qualified midwife remember) the older you get the more the chance of multiple births increase.

Now, I really do have to think very carefully.

8 Comments:

  • At 7:38 PM , Blogger Vetmommy said...

    Twins would be daunting enough. With triplets you couldn't even hold them all! Yikes!

     
  • At 7:39 AM , Blogger paula said...

    I know, how is she going to do the night feeds?

     
  • At 10:27 AM , Blogger Emily said...

    That's true. The chance of multiples increases with age. Something I think about...

     
  • At 10:34 AM , Blogger paula said...

    Ooooh Em, just think, you could be the delighted recipient of a biological three for one offer ...

     
  • At 8:07 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Yikes is my word exactly! I never knew the challenges of multiples until Steph had her twins and seeing it up close makes you pause.... Having said that, both my Mom and Eric's Mum (your lovely Nana) had children after 40 and they were singles - your Uncle Eric being that result!

    Whatever your choice, it will be good and right. Once again, so glad to have you back on the blog!
    Love, Auntie Bev

     
  • At 8:39 AM , Blogger paula said...

    Thanks Aunt Bev X

     
  • At 10:14 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Hey,Paula...think very,very carefully hahahaha

     
  • At 3:52 PM , Blogger Unknown said...

    I always said I've got two arms, two hips and two boobs. Twins are doable but rough going in the beginning. Three? Too much risk to mom and all three during gestation. Long term so much risk of ongoing issues due to being preemie. We humans were meant to have one baby at a time.

     

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